I am struggling to come up with anything whatsoever to say about the Red Sox right now. It's sad--I should be able to talk about them just as well when they're losing as when they're winning most of their games--but I just don't know what to write right now. In the name of appreciating the little things, I did find it heartwarming to hear the story of Carlos Pena--he even had a big grin on his face in the middle of the game the other night, while taking a lead off first base.
Edw. sent me in the direction yesterday of Troy Aikman's remarks when he was inducted into the Hall of Fame, saying I'd appreciate the way they were written (he was right). What stuck out to me the most was the quote:
In closing, I'd like to share something that a close friend used to tell me back when I was playing. He'd say this when times were tough, maybe we'd lost a close game, I'd thrown the deciding interception or the grind and the rigors of the season were beginning to take their toll on me. What Norv Turner would say was this:
Sometimes we have to remind ourselves that these are the jobs we've always dreamed of having. Sometimes we have to remind ourselves that these are the jobs we've always dreamed of having.
But anyway. Since I don't have much more substantial than that to offer today, I thought I'd officially cop out with an open thread. And my open thread question, asked for many reasons but some of them having to do with the Red Sox of late, is: Do you believe in fate? That everything happens for a reason? Or is it all just random molecules crashing together?
Discuss.









The jury's out on this one. I'm generally a 'random molecules' person, but I have been known to utter the words "this was just meant to be" and totally mean them. I've usually uttered them them when something has happened to me that seemed so huge (and 'undeserved') that it was impossible to grasp. Maybe it's just a way of dealing with the incomprehensible. When I can get my head around it, I think it's more a case of "stuff happens"...
Posted by: Iain | August 30, 2006 at 10:16
Fate is a figment that our imagination creates to help us cope with life's ups and downs. It can be a handy tool, as in Iain's example of when something terrible and undeserved happens to us, we cope with the feeling "this was just meant to be." Or, it can be an awful unmotivator, like if I decide that fate has it in for me, so why bother applying for a job I see in an ad.
Posted by: David Welch | August 30, 2006 at 13:18
I'd go somewhere between the two...but I think such a metaphysical discussion almost inevitably involves religion and then tempers flare.
Where is free will in the midst of fate and random molecules? I think if you involve free will, you start to see fate and random molecules as the same thing (or different definitions of the same thing, anyway). A big picture working behind the tiny machinations of a given person.
Me, I say a given person's life is (with absolutely no mathematical basis) 85% free will, 15% "bigger stuff you can't control", whether you believe that's the divine or the big bang. Mostly because I like to believe people can change things or themselves if they want to badly enough. It's funny how quickly "circumstances" can bring a life you think you've brought to order crashing down around you, though.
Posted by: Devine | August 30, 2006 at 16:10
Fate or not it is what it is and in the words of the GREAT sports philosopher, Bill Parcells, "you are what you are". So just file this one in the "we showed up and played" column and "WAIT TILL NEXT YEAR". Or we can go with Yogi "It ain't over till it's over"!
Posted by: Dad | August 30, 2006 at 19:12
I like your first two ideas for where to file this one, Dad, and hated the last one, LOL.
I would like to begin a moratorium on any and all "it ain't over till it's over," "keep the faith," or "we believe." We should save those battle cries for when we really feel we have a chance!
Posted by: David Welch | August 31, 2006 at 07:57